Thanks for posting, Pim. The wider we spread the word, the better our chances. Late polling indicates a statistical dead heat on Prop 8, which is horrifying. If Prop 8 passes, it will have a chilling effect on the fight for marriage equality nationwide for decades.
I don’t live in California, but we do have same sex ceremonial unions in Texas (although they aren’t legally recognized). I don’t understand why some want to interfere with the mutual consent of two adults to commit to each other and have the same legal, custodial, inheritance rights and tax breaks as the rest of us who are hetero. I think many of us who choose to marry the opposite sex take marriage for granted(which is probably why I’m still single while most of my other straight friends are on their second spouse). Good luck.
It says the video is ‘no longer available’?
Thanks for chiming in on the issue, Pim! Reason must prevail!
Good for you for speaking up, Pim! It’s time our country turned away from hate and division.
I wish I lived in California so I could do my part to support equality. These are human rights. Where are we as a society if we deny a human being rights. Oppression has no place in the United States I was brought up to believe in.
…Maybe you should write about all the “freedoms” in Thailand…
I’m not in CA, and it looks like PA will never move into the 21st century.
Thanks for sharing this, Pim. When my husband and I married in California, we had many wedding guests who had been with their same-sex partners longer than we’d been together, but were not able to legally marry. During the past weeks, I’ve been delighted to hear from several of those couples that they’ve made their marriages legal. If we still lived in California, we’d join you in voting NO on Prop 8.
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i live in nebraska, and we are NO WHERE NEAR offering equality (even in the workplace) based on sexual preference. i will probably cry if the previous ruling is overturned in cali. i will probably never understand why anyone cares who marries who.
Thanks, Pim! In Arizona, it’s Prop 102 to define marriage as between a man and a woman, so if you’re in AZ, it’s NO on 102!
Thanks for the No on 8 video! I used to live in California, and now am on the East Coast. But we came back this summer to get married. Too bad there are so many narrow-minded folks in the world. Maybe someday …
Re-posted the video on my blog. I’m not a US citizen yet so I can’t vote. But being an Asian married to a white American boy, I would definitely vote no on 8.
So, has anyone proposed to marry you yet? Or you will just continue the shack-up? It’s so good for the country.
Thanks everyone for taking the time to show your support on this.
And, Jack, this might be a bit over your head, but not being married is *my* choice. That’s the point you seem to be missing. I, as a woman in a relationship with a man, have the rights to be legally married should I want to. I don’t understand why we should deny the same to some.
bravo California and I hope the vote on 8 sends a message that the entire country listens to…I just cannot understand why we as a country can’t uniformly stand up against such discrimination, when will we realize we are the same and deserve the same right we all enjoy???
No on 8 indeed!
Thank you Pim! Many of us bloggers have removed or blocked Google ads that support prop 8, and written our own posts about it. I explain why a vote for prop 8 is a SIN and I use that theological word quite purposely.
I love watching the “Yes on 8″ crazies that gather on street corners out here, with their kids holding signs too. Waving to cars with these robotic smiles on their faces, programmed from youth to be intolerant to anyone who isn’t just like them, I wonder if they realize how hurtful their cause is to people who want basic human rights.
Their lack of humanity is bad enough, but to do it with a smile just puts a pit in my stomach. But it’s America, and that’s their right – whether I agree with them or not. Tomorrow, we have a chance to make serious history in this country. Whether you agree or disagree, get out there and vote. Celebrate your right to speak your mind as Americans.
Thank you for posting this.
It’s hard to imagine that there are still so many narrow minded people in the world. But, the truth is, there are and that’s a scary thought. Change is in the air all over the map right now. Today is our opportunity to make history. No on 8!
I stopped in today to attempt your recipe for Pennsylvania Dutch pot pie. Imagine my surprise to find your view on Prop 8 posted loud and clear! All I can say, Pim, is thank you for consistently working so hard to make the world a better, more beautiful, and better-tasting place. As someone living on the Peninsula, I am proud to call you an almost-neighbor. My marriage was 11 days ago, and I am holding my breath today. Thanks again.
A bummer. Some good news is Connecticut voted “no” on ballot question 1 to have a convention to amend the state constitution — seen by everyone as a “de facto” gay marriage question.
Wow, Jack, how is Pim (or any couple) not being married bad for the country?
Anywhose, phooey to you CA conservatives. I will have my right to bridal registry, dammit.
The outcome was sad but not surprising, considering that a proposition endorsing creationism as science would also have had a fighting chance if the ads had been similarly wall-to-wall. Count your blessings that the crash didn’t wait to hit until after the election.
I can’t understand & people have yet to explain exactly how gay marriage hurts anyone else! We’ve had gay marriage here in Massachusetts now for a few years & the sky hasn’t fallen in yet! It’s a shame that Obama & Biden couldn’t have come out as pro gay marriage but it probably would’ve been political suicide. Glenn Greenwald has a good piece about the issue in Salon, btw. I hope people in CA (and the other states) can fight this again. Too many people probably took for granted that Prop 8 wouldn’t pass & are now shocked & horrified. They need to get involved & reframe the issue as a civil rights issue. Bittersweet, but it’s GREAT about OBAMA!!!
On television, after the propositions were voted on, someone mentioned “today in California, chickens have more rights than gays” (a proposition passed to give caged chickens more room!!).
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